Ask Aunty Bruce - Too Quiet to be a Pornstar

Dear Aunty Bruce: I have a problem in my sex life. My girlfriend doesn't seem to come when we have sex although she says she does. But she doesn't make much noise, no moaning or moving about like my previous girlfriends did. They behaved more like women in porn movies, and our sex-life was very physical, all hot and sweaty. I don't get any of that with my current girlfriend and its becoming really frustrating.

 

Aunty Bruce Answers: Not everybody makes a song and dance about having an orgasm. For women they can range from a light flutter to a mini explosion. Perhaps your obvious disappointment in her "performance" intimidates her and inhibits her from expressing herself. Ease up a little. Show some consideration and encouragement and you might find she becomes a bit more vocal. And incidentally, porn stars are performers - they're paid to act up all horny.